Monday, December 19, 2005

Update

1. The logsplitter repair is complete. It was so nice to fire it up, press the lever, and see the ram do its thing.

2. I am making good progress on the Christmas gifts, although I have slowed down somewhat.

3. My ex is "intending" to only let me have my son for Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday of next week. Our court order explicitly states that in odd numbered years, I will have him from noon on Dec 26 until noon on the day before he has to go back to school after Christmas break. That will be on Monday, Jan 2. So I will have him for a full week. If she doesn't want to abide by that, then I'll file a contempt of court order. It is what she agreed to in 2004.

4. I've gone out with "Kim" a few times now. She is a really nice, straight woman. Although she has a heavy accent, I can understand her. She wants to speak English better so I told her I would help. But I made sure she understood that any time I correct her it is not because I'm being mean. Rather, is is because I want to be helpful. For example, she most often drops the pronunciation of the "s" for any noun that is plural. Maybe she will say she is looking for her "key" when she means "keys". That's a minor thing. But sometimes she drops the past tense "-ed" suffix off of words. Perhaps she will say "I was confuse" when she meant "confused." That can be a little trickier to understand, particularly with an accent. So I told her that if I ask her to repeat something, please understand that I want to make sure I got what she meant.

We got to hang out today a little while because the shop she works in is "close on Monday" (closed on Mondays) and also I am on vacation until the first of the year.

5. As a favor to friends (Helen and Bryan) I am doing some plumbing work. Helen owns a nail salon and she is adding two pedicure chairs. These need to be plumbed for hot and cold water and a drain line. Bryan is not handy at all but Helen wants him to learn how to do things. So he and I are doing the work (mostly me, but he pitches in). There is currently one chair in the shop and they are ordering the second one. On Saturday we finished installing the drain line and the supply lines run from the chair to a sink, but are not connected under the sink yet. We need to get together with the proprietor of a neighboring shop to turn the water off temporarily to make those connections. Anyway, we filled the tub with water (using a gallon jug) and tested the drain system. There were minor leaks that were corrected by tightening the connections.

If it were me, I would have done all the plumbing with copper supply lines and PVC drain lines. But Bryan balked at the idea. He opted for more expensive materials called "PEX" that uses hand tightened compression fittings. His reasoning is that it is within his capability and should Helen ever want to relocate the shop, it would be easier for him to break it all down and take it with them. Their money, not mine. I thought he would like to learn to "sweat" copper pipe fittings...I was wrong. Nevertheless, he did have to solvent weld a PVC fitting to convert to a hose for the drains.

6. I also helped Helen move things around in her shop. She needed a drink machine moved to the front. I did it. The shop TV used to sit on top of the drink machine I installed a wall-mount TV bracket and put the TV 7 feet off the floor where it can be viewed from almost anywhere in the shop. To do that I had to wire a receptacle high up on the wall and run a new cable line there too. All done. I also put up some Christmas lights for her, and installed a lighted picture (a blinking skyline of New York city). The power line for that picture was unsightly, running down the wall. So I drilled a hole behind the picture and put the power line on the other side of the wall. Helen laughed at how easy that solution was, and I used one of her lunch chopsticks to push the wire through the hole. Helen wishes that Bryan would be able to do these things.

So, why am I doing these favors for Helen? Well, Kim is her employee and that gives me time to hang out there and chat with Kim when she isn't busy. I watched Kim do someone's nails. She did this thing called a "fill-in". While she was doing that I chatted with the customer. Nice elderly lady. She was a customer of Helen's for years, and wasn't sure she wanted this "new person" to do her nails. But after just a couple of moments she looked around the shop and proclaimed "Oh yeah, she KNOWS what she's doing! I can TELL !"

Anyway, more later.

3 Comments:

At 9:57 AM, December 20, 2005, Blogger Amanda said...

I think it's great you are helping beautify your friend's salon. However, I think Brian needs a "How to" book; or better yet, take your advice since you know what you're doing.

Sounds like the perks of helping out a friend are very favorable to you.

As far as the visitations are concerned, I had the same issues with Mario. As long as you have the court documents that specifically state when and where, and she does not allow you to pick Jean Pierre up according to the documents, you can request a police assistance/escort. On the other hand, you may need to file contempt of court. I'm sorry she's causing you this trouble. I've been there before. I know how aggrivating it is.

 
At 8:59 AM, December 21, 2005, Blogger DB said...

I hope your Christmas goes well and your troubles are few. Sounds like you have a good situation going on for the most part. I hope the visitation works out ok.

 
At 5:01 PM, December 21, 2005, Blogger Mandi said...

I'm so glad you're doing ok! You've not been chatting.

Louise is being such a bitch. I'm sorry she's trying to make this frustrating for you!

 

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